Thursday, January 24, 2008

The Take on Jake

As the news about Heath unfolded over the past days, thoughts turned not only to his family, Michelle, and Matilda but for many here, to Jake as well.

TMZ. com has reported as of last night ( January 23rd)
Jake Gyllenhaal has yet to be seen or heard from since the death of his close friend, Heath Ledger -- and people on the set of his new film are working hard to keep it that way.

Gyllenhaal is in New Mexico, currently filming his new movie, "Brothers." We're told there are no plans to shut down production, but Jake is very upset and doesn't want to talk to the media -- so the set has been closed to non-crew members and extra security has been hired.
Knowing how Brokeback brought so many fans together, for those who made it, it must have created an even more special bond. Jake's thoughts must be filled with sorrow over the loss of Heath, and concern for both Michelle and his goddaughter Matilda.


It's good that the cast and crew of Brothers have rallied around Jake, protecting him from the onslaught of the media so that he can have time to reflect, renew, and find strength to give. Sure that he is also turning to his own family and Austin for support. It is times like these that people draw close to those they love.

168 comments:

  1. Don't know what to say this morning either, still feeling so bad about the tragic loss of someone so young and talented. I guess this song makes me feel better. AG, thanks for the information about the funeral, it sounds beautiful. I have always found that when you lose someone close to you, it's so comforting to know just how many people loved them. :'(

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  2. This is not to take away from the tragic loss of a young life, but there seem to be a lot of fans sticking their heads in the sand at the mention of Heath's drug habit. We don't know yet the specific reason for his death, but I think it's been said for a long time that Heath had a substance abuse problem. Precsription and non-prescription.

    I remember when Ted wrote that BI about Toothy taking coke there seemed to be a lot of people going "no way, not Jake". Well, you're fooling yourself if you don't think drug use is prevalent among young HW celebs. I am absolutely sure Jake has occasionally indulged, but he doesn't strike me as a regular user.

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  3. what difference does it make how he died? it wouldn't change the way I see Heath as a talented actor, drug-addict or not.

    however, I do think unsustainable rumours would hurt his family and there's no need to inflict pain on them at a time like this.

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  4. I remember when Ted wrote that BI about Toothy taking coke there seemed to be a lot of people going "no way, not Jake".

    When was that?

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  5. what difference does it make how he died? it wouldn't change the way I see Heath as a talented actor, drug-addict or not.

    Nor for me, but the general bs in the tabs about "exhausted" celebs tires me out. Why not tell the truth?

    I've taken drugs at parties, but don't have the money/inclination to do it all the time. It's not a moral issue for me, but a health-related one. What is going on in a young, beautiful, talented person's head when drugs seem the panacea? It's an interesting and relevant question.

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  6. I know, my feeling is just let's wait until all the facts are in. People like Britney, Amy Winehouse, etc. are still alive and here with us, people like Heath and Brad Renfro are not.

    Of course, it's no ill reflection on someone if they are struggling with drug addiction, it's as much an illness as any other. I've had it happen with a member of my own family, and thank G*d they are now ok. It is what it is, as someone over at WFT posted. But, for a little more than 24 hours at least, I just feel let's wait till all the facts are in, there's plenty of time for the media to have a field day with it, and for discussion. :')

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  7. This was in today's Inside Track in the Boston Herald.

    "That the masseuse who found the body of actor Heath Ledger works on Martha’s Vineyard in the summer rubbing many celebs the right way . . . ."

    Boston Herald - Inside Track: We Hear

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  8. Here is an interview with Christopher Plummer who was working with Heath on
    The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus.

    EW - Heath Ledger: His Last Costar Reflects

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  9. Wow, nice work if you can get it, Spesh! ;)

    The movie Heath was working on sounds really interesting too, what a shame.

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  10. The prescription vs. non-prescription issue becomes important only in one circumstance:

    if Heath is considered for an award posthumously.
    I wish his Joker would enter in competition.

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  11. I was thinking that too, netb :(

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  12. It's been 2 days but I still cant wrap my head around this. I am pleased to see that, except for a few crackpots, Heath is being universally praised for being so talented, was highly respected and well liked by his peers as well as his many fans. At least his daughter will be able to read all the lovely things said about him when she is older.

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  13. This is from USA Today:

    NEW YORK — Funeral arrangements for Heath Ledger have been completed and his relatives are expected to arrive in New York on Friday, according to a funeral home spokesman.

    George Amado, the general manager of the Frank E. Campbell funeral home, refused to disclose any more details, saying that any additional information would have to come from Ledger's manager.

    "The family doesn't want us to give out any information," he said Thursday.

    USA Today - Ledger Funeral Set

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  14. I'm thinking the "masseuse" was a hooker. Why the big delay in calling 911 ???? And she didn't know CPR?? Sounds suspicious like she was trying to think up a plan first, calling MKO for advice.

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  15. Pessimist:

    That speculation is far from reality.
    The massage therapist is her vocation. There are pictures of both her and the housekeeper standing and waiting outside the apartment looking completely stunned.

    In all honesty, I know all the things you should do in an emergency. But being putting in that kind of situation, I'm not sure if I would be so thrown by finding someone that I would follow all those logical steps you are supposed to do.

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  16. Seems like that masseuse is known to be working in the celebrity circle. I tend to think she was just being overly discreet... if you work with people in the public eye - you'd learn not to notify the authority straight away when something happens. I read that she used Heath's mobile, clicked the speed dial and called Mary Kate Olsen, could be one of the clients that she recognised.

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  17. Well, you know, even I get pulled into responding to trolls, without thinking. Damn it, I will go get the mop and bucket and clean up after myself.

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  18. Heath Ledger Memorial Site community on LiveJournal

    Heath Ledger Memorial Site

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  19. I hate to say this guys but I think I've just managed to find the way to finally quit Jake.

    http://barneybu.blogspot.com/2008/01/list-morning.html

    Maybe not true, but wtf!.

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  20. huh? but Jake is in New Mexico shooting, how could he be in Brentwood CountryMark yesterday? Isn't that in... LA? (sorry, not familiar with US locations)

    sorry... am i responding to troll again?

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  21. Nope not a troll. Just saying it sounds kooky to not call 911 ASAP. Overly discreet or underly bright, she's an idiot. And that celeb clientele of hers? Its gonna disappear.

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  23. This comment:

    http://barneybu.blogspot.com/2008/01/list-morning.html

    I swear I think I'm going to throw up. God, please don't let it be true, Jake can't be that insensitive!
    Btw I'm not a troll.

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  24. YES I READ THE BLOG. But what part of it bothers you? Jeez, explain yourself, I'm not a fucking mind reader.

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  25. And as we started said walk in the Brentwood CountryMart parking lot- no other than REESE and JAKE came out of the a store holding hands. And we walked behind them around the mart. They kept turning around smiling at the dogs and held hands the whole time.

    SHE is tiny. Like uber petite, little head, little body, the whole deal. Again what you see on film makes her seem like an average woman- she is tiny. Jake looked totally the same as always jeans, aviators, beard. They were really cute and looked very happy.

    Then a paparrzo in a chrysler mini-van almost ran us over trying to catch up and get some shots. Weird.

    *btw they looked pretty happy, I can only imagine Jake is pretty upset as Heath was a best friend and he is also Matilda Ledger's GOD FATHER....


    Apologies for reposting the whole thing, but if a good friend of yours had just oded and you felt you could have done something to help him, is this how you would react?

    (I' not a troll by the way, just a disappointed (ex?)Jake fan.

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  26. The part where Jake is fucking walking holding hands and acting all happy with Reese in Brentwood after Heath has just died.

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  27. Went to the alleged sighting.

    TMZ said in fact that he was in NM. TMZ has a past track record of credibility.

    This is a random sighting that sounds so much like other sightings.

    I will take over TMZ over some random blog.

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  28. Why are you believing this sighting?

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  29. that blog is strange... the blogger sometimes post up to 20 posts a day and no one ever commented on of her posts - pls don't start now. nothing wrong with that, just seems weird... who knows why someone would make up a sighting? drive traffic to the blog? get attention?

    i'll take TMZ's word for Jake's location, especially they are professionals (some sort of....)

    btw, over on WFT, there are some people (or just one pretending to agree with himself) bashing jake for not making a statement... what kind of weird thinking is that?

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  30. God special, I hope that comment it's just bs because I'm heartbroken as it is by Heath's death and Jake acting all happy would make me… I don't even have words for it. I hope you're right.

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  31. If it's true, if Jake was out shopping and smiling and parading his beard two days after Heath's passing, than BBM fans and it's unique fan base have just been hit with two deaths in the same week.

    Jake will not recover from this.

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  32. And no pics even tho she says they were walking behind J/R and evryone in LA has their cell phone w/cmera with them 25 hours a day.

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  33. 24 hours a day. Dog walk or no dog walk.

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  34. 24 hours a day. Dog walk or no dog walk.

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  35. S'one commented on the blog. and asked re J/R looking happy.

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  36. When has Jake been happy and smiling and holding hands with Reese?

    ROME

    This isn't a PR thing. PR wouldn't be that callous or stupid to make them look happy after something so tragic. I think it is a lot of bs.

    So I am going with TMZ. They're credible about other celebrities (including the information about Heath) why would they not be with Jake. So I am going over a known entertainment news site over a random blogger.

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  37. I think you are right, Special. I trust Jake's motives.

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  38. YOU ARE WRONG SPESH. OK half wrong. :) They were holding hands in Rome but Jakey wasn't smiling.lol

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  39. disgusted, i am not talking about what is the right thing to do. you asked why she didn't call 911 right away, I was just providing some guesses...

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  40. She updated the blog with more information about the sighting

    http://barneybu.blogspot.com/2008/01/jake-reese.html

    It could be true. TMZ reported Jake was in NM yesterday. The sighting is from today :(

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  41. If the sighting really was true we would have seen the pics by now. The blogger said there were paparazzi there.
    Since everybody is waiting for Jake's reaction, those would be released right away.

    I trust Jake and I believe TMZ based on their track-record.
    The fact that someone obviously felt the need to make something like this up is cruel to both Heath and Jake.

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  42. All I know is, maybe his life could have been saved if someone acted more quickly? Instead of calling that scrawny-assed twit????? :'(

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  43. About calling MK first.

    I got this IM this morning when I got into work from a friend. (This is the one who gave me the MV scoop about Jake leaving the island this summer)

    Planegirl: so the moral of the story is, if you feel there is a possible serious incident going on, you don't call 911, you call Mary-Kate Olsen

    Special: didn't you know that?
    Special: Olsen Twin Power Activate!

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  44. I'm hoping that this blogger is some sad attention seeker, if not, then I'm sorry Jake, I'm lost for words at your actions.

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  45. Do you think she is updating to make people believe it?

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  46. Special, I needed that joke . . . desperately. Thanks for the distraction! :*

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  47. don't drive traffic over to that blog... i think that's her intention.

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  48. Maybe he was just high and had the munchies and Reese seized the moment.

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  49. I'm sorry Winterbird, I just feel so fucking awful about this tragedy - if there was something that could have been done to save him.

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  50. Tha damage is done - whether is was a plant by PR, a blogger looking for attention, or the truth. Jake now looks like an insensitive asshole who couldn't even take the time to issue a platitude about a 'friend's' death because he was too in love with Reese.

    If it was the goal of Reeke to alienate each and every fan that Jake had for himself alone, then they will suceed with this. Of course, Jake goes down, so does Reese, and that part almost makes this whoring by Jake worthwhile.

    I certainly hope that PR is watching today, 'cause they will see all their hard work come to fruition. And you know what? They can have him.

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  51. If and when pics on Reeke come out (today, tomorrow, whenever) it'll be "Reese was consoling Jake...Reese is wonderful....blah blah blah" And if it is true they're together I honestly have to wonder if drugs have anything to do with it. I think Jake is smoking again, I think reese (who looks way too small for it to be just from diet/workout) smokes too (they both have teeth stains only on the canines where a cig is inhaled). I think theres a lot they might be doing without everyone knowing. People who do drugs especially tend to exclude others from their lives and change their routine. And when have we seen Jake with anyone else or biking or running how he used to?

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  52. Reese is already starting to lose her shine. This is a post from Laughing yesterday. Maybe some of you missed it. Dammit Jake, don't let Reese pull you down into nothingness. We thought you were better than that.

    Laughings post:

    "Sorry to go offtopic but I have to laugh at Reese's PR ploy the last few months that kept pushing headlines of how she's the highest paid HW actress, blah blah. Instead of making her sound elite its giving her a total bad name now because now the Writers Guild is using her per movie salary figures to compare how much they're asking for. In a debate today between the WGA and the US Congress:

    "It would cost Paramount a total of $4.6 million to give the writers everything they‘re asking for. That‘s half the amount it would take to get Reese Witherspoon into a movie. Now, I ask you, what‘s more important to a movie: a script or half of Reese Witherspoon?"

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  53. So, Jake is using Heath's death to pimp Reeke?

    That's even skeezier.

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  54. FL Has Left the Bldg., I couldn't agree with you more.

    I've really tried to hold back, and be fair - but since he has been associated with her, it's like a pod person has taken his place. Where is the real Jake Gyllenhaal and will he please stand up? I've wanted to vomit ever since the beginning of this ridiculous fauxmance. If pics come out now, it won't look like she's consoling him, it'll look like he couldn't be bothered to do the right thing, because it'll look like he's so pu**y whipped, or couldn't take time out between trysts to honor a friend. Whup-pah! Just listen to that whip cracking. It's a good thing she's not Bonnie and he's Clyde, he'd be robbing banks. I'm sorry, this is just how I feel. I'm just about all done with him, and never ever was a fan of hers. This image they are creating for them truly sucks.

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  55. Remember when he said ...

    "First, it's 'Who is Jake Gyllenhaal,' then it's 'Get me Jake Gyllenhaal,' then 'Get me someone who looks like Jake Gyllenhaal,' and then 'Who is Jake Gyllenhaal?' Right now, I'm between 'Who is Jake Gyllenhaal?' and 'Get me Jake Gyllenhaal.'

    Oh sweety, for most of us you're rapidly approaching the "Get me someone who looks like Jake Gyllenhaal" phase of your own statement and hopefully the person who looks like you will have a lot more integrity than you've had in the past few months.

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  56. He was so broken up that he had to fly back to LA, so he could hold hands with Reese, go shoppping, smiling at dogs all the while making sure that he was seen by public and paps alike?

    Good G*d.

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  57. Let's just remember that this may all be a totally fake (and malicious) sighting. Let's give the guy the benefit of the doubt.

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  58. http://community.livejournal.com/ohnotheydidnt/19694569.html

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  61. Jake's a piece of shit, I'm sorry. Poor Heath, may you rest in peace. If it weren't for Heath's stunning performance in BBM, Jake wouldn't have risen in the Hollywood hierarchic caste. He's a disgrace and a joke. I loathe this POS.

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  62. Chances are this never happened...makes no sense, because didn't someone say they saw that jake had to be consoled or something? I dunno I'm getting things jumbled up.

    Yeah I saw the Jake thing on Ellen too, but I dunno if he will actually be on the show becuase it was a clip from his last appearance, it was all clips from previous birthday shows and such. But you never know, it would make sense for him to say something on Ellen if he is going to be on the show...she would help him get through it...

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  63. okay maybe I'm missing something or stupid but I went to the LJ site and I don't understand? Is there a link there or something?

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  64. Please don't all totally dump on Jake. None of us know what the guy is feeling or thinking, where he is or what he is or isn't doing tomorrow. As I said before, let's give him the benefit of the doubt. Please!

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  65. People calm down. I really really doubt the sighting is true. I believe TMZ and any tv show with Jake has probably been filmed in advance.

    And by the way 6:04 please do not post under my name.

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  67. I've been having a rethink about this.

    Maybe in our rush to judgment we overestimated the friendship between Jake and Heath?

    Maybe in our rush to judgment we never took into consideration Jake's emotional status from the time he heard about Heath's passing until just before he was spotted this morning?

    With all due respect, none of us knows how Jake grieves. Sure, we'd like him to be wearing widow weeds and be inconsolable. Maybe that's just us.

    Do we know if he called Michelle and Michelle told him not to come back east?

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  68. The incredible Daniel Day-Lewis expresses his heartfelt sympathy and sadness over Heath Ledger's death today while on Oprah (who wanted to talk to him about his Oscar nomination). This just makes me love him more: http://www.tmz.com/tmz_main_video?titleid=1389981778

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  69. 'the real hopeful'- I'm sorry for using your name, I usually don't post at OMG, only at WFT and I had no idea it was somebody’s nick already; my previous name a few posts above was 'sick to my stomach' and when special said that she thinks TMZ is right I changed it for 'hopeful' as in: I hope you're right. Again, sorry for the confusion, not a troll here just a truly disappointed ex Jake fan.

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  70. And again: hopeful at 6:13, you are ruining my name on this blog. Choose another one for your rant. But I guess the idea is to mess things up...

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  71. "Tha damage is done - whether is was a plant by PR, a blogger looking for attention, or the truth. Jake now looks like an insensitive asshole who couldn't even take the time to issue a platitude about a 'friend's' death because he was too in love with Reese.

    If it was the goal of Reeke to alienate each and every fan that Jake had for himself alone, then they will suceed with this. Of course, Jake goes down, so does Reese, and that part almost makes this whoring by Jake worthwhile.

    I certainly hope that PR is watching today, 'cause they will see all their hard work come to fruition. And you know what? They can have him."

    This comment and type of thinking is SAD.. First of all you are not Jake and you don't know what or how he feels or how he deals with death. And if he is smiling (if the siting is true) it could be about something funny at that moment that has absolutely NOTHING to do with Heath's passing. Again, fans or so-called fans jumping to Conclusions with no merit at all. And all because Jake does NOT move to your time zone or react when they think he should. And, this is NOT about Reese Witherspoon. For all any of us know Jake could have made condolences to the Family in private and my take part in some memorial, or NOT. It's his choice. The mind set of some fans never sease to amaze me. I know some would love to see Jake posted on the tabloids with tears and sobbing. He should do it HIS WAY. This is not about pleasing fans.

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  72. wadr.. I'm sorry, I'm willing to give the guys ome slack..but.. there is something (old fashioned I know) called a period of mourning. And something tells me that during this period (which usually lasts at least a couple of weeks if not more, not 24 hours!) one doesn't parade around with your 'girlfriend' all happy and chirppy for the cameras.

    I may be from 'old europe' but its about respecting the dead, its something respectable people do.

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  73. ^^I feel the same way, Meg. This is really disappointing. :(

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  74. Once again, I don't think Jake would have managed to do all this without being photographed.

    LAX airport is always packed with paps and at this time where everybody is looking for him, there's no way he would have gotten there completely unnoticed.

    The paps got Michelle and Matilda departing from a Swedish airport, but not Jake arriving at LAX?
    They got Busy Phillips, Matildas godmother, arriving in NYC, but not Jake?

    I know it's hard, but let's at least give Jake the benefit of doubt. Especially when neither of the new "info" we got the last one or two hours seem possible due to the interest that the paparazzi have in him right now.

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  75. I agree Meg. If Jake came back to LA he could have made some sort of public statement first, asked to be left alone while he grieved and then be able to have a few days to relax without hopefully being bothered. But if the BrentwoodMart siting is true then it shows sadly a side of Jake and Reece and Reeke that is heartless and cruel.

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  76. Sorry but wtf is going on here?!?! Amazing that folks are just jumping to conclusions, damning Jake, dumping on him when we know nothing! That blogger said she saw them but guess what she posted a very old picture of them because that was the only time we saw Jake in bright orange. I highly doubt Jake is walking around happy, happy right now. And Ellen may be using clips from old shows like Jake cooking, etc.

    G*d the condemnation of Jake is scary. Sounds like ridiculous troll tactics to make everyone hate him.

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  77. LAX isn't the only airport, theres Burbank and some others. And he wouldn't fly commercial, it would be a studio's private jet.

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  78. It's true that this sighting may be made up. I plan on giving Jake the benefit of the doubt, but if it turns out he cannot take a few minutes to honor Heath, I am all done. Now Daniel Day-Lewis has some class; I always did love him too, and this makes me love him even more. We don't know if this is about his relationship with Reese Witherspoon or not, we really don't know what is going on with Jake lately. If his PR is advising him on what to do, they are way off.

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  80. Clearly these let's-hate-Jake posters are certainly not regular OMG posters - they are from outside - probably trying to stir in order to make OMG look bad. How pathetic.

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  81. Wow this has gotten really nasty here. To believe some random blogger? To just write Jake off. Who knows but I don't think Jake and Reese could just take a stroll around a country mart at the moment. Sad that this is what Jake has to deal with in his "fans."

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  83. Jake may not want to talt to any media at this time. His Choice

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  84. talt = talk. Typing too fast, Sorry

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  85. perspective & crackle.. people are just reacting to what they hear. yes, i agree, you wouldn't want to hear this about yourself, but the again if you present a certain picture to the world and publicise yourself in a certain way you can't then complain when people comment, can you.

    Basically, nobody forces you to be a celebrity do they.

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  86. Alright, well I'm not one of those ppl who think Jake needs to be moping all day long. Especially if Jake is the type of person who accepts death...not every moment of his day would not be spent crying. But I would find it disrespectful if Jake was out with Reese on account of his PR...remember that Reese and Jake are friends and Jake probably would like to be with his friends at this moment...anywho I don't believe the sighting before ppl start jumping down my throat...

    I dunno, I think I'm different from you guys in the fact that Jake is able to say anything and almost do anything and I would not be upset with him at all...

    RIP Heath

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  87. I'm not a troll either. I just like to post under different names depending on the way I feel, so you I can see why it might confuse you into thinking I'm new.

    We all know the siting could be made up. But just because we express belief, disbelief and anger at it doesn't mean we're trolls. Jeez, can't you let people express things without assuming they're out to destroy you? Can't we just say our feelings even if they aren't all roses and cotton candy?

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  88. I just looked at the Ellen clip. It seems like a compilation show because it is the shows anniversary. Those things are usually pre-taped well wishes or clips from the guests like Ryan, Jake, etc. Jake pre-taped the birthday show when he was doing the stalker calls. Plus, the clip showed his last appearance when he cooked.

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  89. Everybody is grief-stricken, maybe not to the extent that someone who knew Heath and was close to him would be, but grief-stricken nonetheless. Denial, anger, emptiness . . . the whole nine yards. Doesn't make us trolls. :'(

    I guess I should update my emergency phone numbers listing now and change 911 to Mary Kate Olsen!

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  90. Man commute and come home to this?

    Why are you believing one random blogger with no pictures. Why are you jumping to conclusions? Where is the benefit of the doubt?

    I just don't understand the blind faith in a blog that you have never been to before or know nothing about?

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  91. Jesus Christ! Even John Travolta issued a statement about Heath's death! Daniel Day-Lewis spoke about him on Oprah. Have these men ever worked with Heath? Did they know him other than his work?

    I don't think it's too outside the realm of decorum or senstitivity to expect at least one sentence via a publicist from the man with whom Heath become legend.

    And I'm expressing my opinion, not trolling.

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  92. Pleas cut the PR BULLSH_T. None of us know if Jake has talked to the family or Michelle or Not. (NONE OF US (KNOW))
    Because he chooses not to use a sound bite to the media about his feelings towards a friends untimely death.

    The judgemental chastising of Jake is callous and unwarranted.

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  93. I think it's called a Pavlovian response now . . . we've had to endure a series of this kind of thing, so it's almost expected now, at least for me.

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  94. "I guess I should update my emergency phone numbers listing now and change 911 to Mary Kate Olsen!"


    lol yeah,, I needed that laugh. Thanks

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  95. TB'ers


    STOP

    TAKE A DEEP BREATH

    LET'S THINK THROUGH THIS TOGETHER.


    The PR has been on the site all day, and they are on now, OK.

    Trolls are out in force

    You know why -- because they feel that they can sway you when you are so emotional vulnerable.

    They are jumping on with sensationalism to break this place apart.

    I REFUSE TO LET THIS HAPPEN!!

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  96. I haven't read any of the links - have only just switched back on at midnight, bleary eyed - but I'm guessing if someone was following them with a van then we can expect Flynet pics or the like, so I'll wait. If pics emerge of Jeese looking blissful prior to Jake making any kind of public statement about Heath then my laminated platinum-plated reinforced Jake card will be vulnerable.

    One for tomorrow.

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  97. Here's a message to PR, then: I value Jake. Now is not the time to be working on your bearding campaign for him. It makes him look bad, and none of us want that.

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  98. "Jesus Christ! Even John Travolta issued a statement about Heath's death! Daniel Day-Lewis spoke about him on Oprah"

    And because now suddenly everyone and their dog is commenting on Heath via the media Jake has to do the same?

    If the sighting is true we will know it soon. According to the blogger there was a pap who took pictures.

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  99. Thanks Special, one of our voices of reason - my apologies to all.

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  100. Insider/ET has just verified the TMZ news that Jake is in New Mexico.

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  101. Disgusted; 'I guess I should update my emergency phone numbers listing now and change 911 to Mary Kate Olsen'

    Wrong number, its Mary Kate FUCKIN Olsen. lol

    ***************

    Don't put that Troll Tag on us just because you don't want to hear the POSSIBILITY that Jake is a heartless asshole. Who knows - pics of the happy handholding couple laughing and skipping thru a parking lot might show up. I'm preparing myself for it.

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  103. apologies from me as well, i think I may have been a little judgemental. I'm with london @ 7:03

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  104. The day Jake skips through the parking lot with anyone, he should just give up the charade of a beard.

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  106. Will he have to stop playing hopscotch too? :(

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  107. Why are we jumping to conclusions.


    Why are we so quick to pass judgement?

    Why are we so quick to abandon when a germ of speculation hits?


    We need to just step back, slow down, and take time to think through everything.

    It is easy to get caught up in emotion and the sensationalism of the media build up and coupled with tender hearts its easy to be reactive.

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  108. "We" are a number of newly minted trolls, Special - not regular posters. Like Crackle and yourself and other regular posters suggested, i waited for proof. And I was vindicated.

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  109. No one shit on Jake, Frenchy - it was a pure series of troll-postings. Now *that* is disgusting - to use Heath's death on order to bring down a Jake-positive Jaustin blog.

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  110. *waves to Evelyn*

    Thanks, Special, once again, for bringing me back from the edge.

    So, what is everyone going to send to the Fred waste of precious oxygen Phelps tomorrow?

    Personally it will be Matthew 22:39

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  112. Well, please do delete all of my posts as well. I just am so upset by Heath's death - it's just so unfair. But I think I lost it there for a few minutes, so i agree, delete all of what I said, I was upset. :(

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  113. Excellent suggestion ME.

    "Love your neighbor as yourself."

    There is no commandment greater

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  114. Please delete my posts too, if you say that the insider/ET confirmed he was in NM today, then I apologize, I was just angry.

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  115. Let me take some housekeeping time tonight to get the OMG back in order and get it looking back to the place we all know OMG really is.

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  116. Who are you, disgusted/sick to my stomach? You have never posted here before; why did you feel the urge to lash out today?

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  117. Special - it takes 5 minutes max to delete these troll comments. Please do it ASAP.

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  118. Oh god, I am just od'ing on all this Heath coverage. And it's so painful folks being here in NYC when it's in OVERDRIVE--Heath's lovely, pensive face on the cover of the NY Post, NY Daily News, etc.

    That sighting was odd because the Insider confirmed that Jake is still in NM (unless that sighting is old).

    Don't you just love Daniel Day-Lewis? ET will also be interviewing the real-life Australian gay cowboy who inspired Heath in his role as Ennis. They just showed a preview--he uncannily resembles Ennis but (not as handsome as Heath).

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  119. Let me take some housekeeping time tonight to get the OMG back in order and get it looking back to the place we all know OMG really is.

    Thanks (((Special))).

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  120. I came from WFT here because there was a discussion about someone saying that they read or heard that Jake wouldn't make a statement because Reese won't let have him being linked to Heath (the term used was drug user, but I will not say that about Heath) so I came to see if the poster got his info from OMG and I saw the link to that blog and then the Ellen show and I lost it.

    Btw I'm not 'disgusted' only 'sick to my stomach'.

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  121. Personally I don't think there is a 'we' just one person posting over and over. Its just too pat to have a series of people posting in rapid succession all agreeing with each other that Jake is an insensitive jerk.

    I question why a true TBer would be so ready to trash Jake over something written in a no-name blog.

    Special K and Wicked, I would seriously consider deleting these comments because they seriously damage the reputation of this blog.

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  122. I am starting to delete the comments of those who asked me to delete their own comments.

    I really don't like censorship. It is something I feel strongly about. I feel people have the right to say what they want to say. Not that I will agree with it or believe it.

    It is when posts become deflammatory, refer to people with profanity that is when things are deleted. And those who ask to have their posts deleted.

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  124. Feel free to delete my comments.

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  125. Feel free to delete my comments because now that was confirmed Jake was in NM today, I feel bad for lashing out. Sorry :)

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  126. Who am I? I am a long time TB. I am not Sick to my Stomach (the poster, at any rate), and I can assure you that there is not just one person posting over and over. That is a myth. I am completely different from the other Disgusted, I just used the first word that came to mind in light of these current events. If Jake is in NM, I apologize. But it is unfair to make up a story that it's just one poster, it's clear from the writing styles that we are all different. I usually post here under my own name with a profile, if that's a hint to anyone. ;)

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  127. If my reaction to everyone's deleted comments becomes meaningless as a result then please delete it too.

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  128. FYI, there are photos of Sienna Miller walking her dog (with her boyfriend--that guy who's in "The Informers"--in tow) on Justjared. JJ mentions how Sienna is a co-star of Heath's and was friends with him. Sienna is wearing a hat that covers a lot of her eyes and her head is drooped--she doesn't look like she's happy--more like she's disturbed and trying to shield herself from the photogs.

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  130. I suspect you also posted the Ellen and subsequent posts as well *here*.

    Yes I did and I apologized and asked special to delete my posts.

    Are you from 360 Management?

    If I was from 360 I sure as hell wouldn't advise Jake to get a beard and make a fool of himself.

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  131. Anon --

    There is no Anon posters here. Please give yourself a name or any post will be deleted.

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  132. Trilobyte, it isn't a quick trashing over a no-name blog. It's a series of things, he hasn't been the Jake I originally became a fan of in a long time. Maybe he never was, but I'm going to try to give him the benefit of the doubt. I cannot in good conscience support someone without question, and blithely look the other when they do things I don't agree with, and that is my right. A snubbing of Heath will be the last straw for me. Spesh, you can delete this one too.

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  133. Universal Features ,the parent of Focus Features, ran a full-page spread in today's Variety (with a shot of Heath as Ennis) paying tribute to him.

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  134. I saw that Broadway. It was a lovely tribute to him.

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  135. BWF, your mentioning of Sienna made me think of Casanova. It seems everything reminds of Heath these days.

    Today my heart was even heavier than yesterday. I think with the initial shock subsiding the reality of his passing is starting to really sink in.

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  136. Stayed away for a bit today and it looks like a good thing I did. The initial stories about Heath and drugs have proven to be false, so I think we need to let some time pass before we believe anything that appears on the web not verified by hard data. Loved the heartfelt comments by Daniel Day Lewis. He did not even know Heath but had total respect for him. Very touching.

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  137. I agree, frenchy, today feels/felt even worse.

    I'd better get going, g'night.

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  138. Michelle hasn't made a statement either and while of course Heath's death is going to affect her way more than Jake, can't we accept that people might not want to make a public statement while their feelings are still too raw? They might want to hold their thoughts of that person close and not put their feelings out there as grist for the Internet mill?

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  139. Et/Insider confirmed that Jake is still in NM? How? Was there footage of him on set or are they just repeating what TMZ said?

    I ask because I was puzzled when TMZ said he was in NM on Wednesday because an extra posted on IMDB (dated 1/22) that she had just did a scene with Tobey and Natalie yesterday (1/21) no sign of Jake.

    He could have showed up on set on Tuesday and was there wednesday as reported but there is such a short distance from NM to L.A. it's quite possible he was in L.A. this morning.

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  140. For those of you who do not visit davecullen.com, they are doing a remembrance book of thoughts of Heath for Matilda and are taking out a full page ad in Variety to say thanks to Heath. Like they did after Brokeback lost best picture. There is a paypal link to contribute to the cost of the ad. Any excess collected will go towards the publishing costs of the book for Matilda. Thought some of you might want to know this.

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  141. I can't believe you guys! Even the Gyllenbabbles didn't fall for this sighting. When did you all start believing every thing you read?

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  142. For those of you who do not visit davecullen.com, they are doing a remembrance book of thoughts of Heath for Matilda and are taking out a full page ad in Variety to say thanks to Heath. Like they did after Brokeback lost best picture.

    Oh I think that is a beautiful thing to do! Thanks for that post, M. I don't usually visit Dave Cullen, but that is very heartening to read. My heart was heavy today too, because I can no longer think that the whole thing was just one big surreal mistake anymore.

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  143. Wow! Just got back online after our internet connection got cut off at the box. With all information, sightings, etc., please ask yourself some questions-
    Do I think this is true?
    What is the source?
    Is the source credible?
    Is there a reason the source would make this up?
    Please don't believe everything you read.

    Update about e-mailing Fred Phelps- I reached out to some other websites but no one else has responded. I think a few folks at WFT will be with us but mostly we are on our own. All I can say is that I will be going to Phelps' website at 12 noon EST tomorrow and letting him know what I think. I know he doesn't care. But I do. If enough people do this, it could shut down his site. And I would personally love to inconvenience the folks at Westboro. They are probably making plans to travel to Australia. If their site is down, it might make it that much harder.

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  144. wicked could you please post the link for FP’s site or some e-mail address or something, I want to be a part of this as well. Thanks

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  145. Phelps' site is the unfortunately named godhatesfags.com. Go to the site and click on contact at the top. It will open a window where you can write you comment. We will put a reminder at the bottom of tomorrow's post as well.

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  146. Interesting Ted column tonight. He stands by everything he said about Heath's drug use. He even quotes an A-list director (anonymously) who said that Heath had a heroin habit but Ted was unsure if that was recent or in the past. Ted also reported that Heath did NO looping for "The Dark Knight" which is making the studio nervous because they might have to use a different actor. Ted was said that he stands by everything he reported.

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  147. Ann

    It's also possible that Jake & those who are part of Brothers have given the press (TMZ & ET/Insider) bogus information so that the press will leave Jake alone. Maybe he is in LA with his family and people he is close to, but doesn't wish to be bothered by the press about his loss.

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  148. TMZ is pretty astute and not likely to fall for bullshit.

    Re the sighting- I just don't see Jake smiling and skipping with anybody two days after Heath's death.

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  149. Goodness, what did they put in the water today!

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  150. On Just Jared, they are saying that they want johnny depp to finish the movie that Heath was currently filming...they saw there was a part in the movie where heath falls through a mirror and they can bring back a different character (johnny) and continue from there...Heaths part would still be in the movie.

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  151. Well, since a member of his family, Maggie, who would also be grieving for the loss of Heath, is in NYC, it is also conceivable that bogus info was given out so he could be there.

    Of course, the set could also be closed because someone flew to him, someone that he's not supposed to be photographed with.

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  152. The tagline of that alleged sighter's blog-

    a young lady lives the dream in santa monica: fashion, gossip, boys, dogs, being the ceo of barney's bling- career, fun, cocktails, shopping, pilates, yoga, champagne, fine jewelry, spa visits, healthy eating/living, celebrity sightings and other needless nonsense that you love

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  153. Has anybody listened to Daniel Day-Lewis short tribute on Oprah? I just read it was very touching and heartfelt.

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  154. Jake hasn't been in NM all week.

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  155. >Has anybody listened to Daniel Day-Lewis short tribute on Oprah? I just read it was very touching and heartfelt.


    Frenchy? is that on a website or where? I'd like to read it too.

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  156. So, praytell, NM, where was Jake all week?

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  157. here we go again...

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  158. Laura, I'm going to find back the link and post it.

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  159. Sorry, I should have written I "listened" to DDL... He speaks about Heath very briefly but it sounds genuine and he really seems to feel what he's saying. Here it is:

    DDL about Heath

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  160. Ok, I'm calling it a day.

    'nite everybody.

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  161. With regards to the various actors/actresses commenting, you also have to remember that a lot of them are commenting whilst they are doing press for their own movies.
    So they are already standing in front of the microphone.
    Not belittling it. Just putting it in perspective.

    Our latest Aussie media reports are that Heather Graham (ex flame of Heath's) was spotted walking across the road from his apartment with tears in her eyes, there is talk that Heath may have been casually seeing Mk Olsen although not confirmed and that one of the New York newspapers reported that the massage therapist is not registered anywhere in New York and so legally can't actually be performing massages.

    RE Jake. I say give him the benefit of the doubt. He'll surely be attending either the NY or LA services or both and we may hear from him then.

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  162. Thought I was out of line about the masseuse girl? Ok maybe she's not a hooker. But from the Assoc Press:

    "Her name is not listed on the New York State Education Department's Web site, which tracks licensed health care professionals. Among the qualifications for a massage therapy license in New York is CPR certification. Practicing massage in New York without a license is a class E felony that can result in fines or jail time."

    Masseuse made 3 calls to MKO before 911. Hope they look into her and MKFO.

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  163. broadwayfan, Ted might stand by everything he says and he might be right but it was terribly insensitive of him to write it that way, and to bring up the episode with Tara Reid the day after Heath dies. Jesus.

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  164. I agree that Ted should not have mentioned the Tara Reid episode the very next day Heath died. Though Ted emphasizes that he is a gossip columnist, it was bad taste to bring this up when everyone was upset.

    People react differently to death and shock. I personally tend to become calm and collective after the initial shock and then a few days later the smallest thing will break me down. Some become hysterical and some deal with tragedy by focusing on the brutal facts ("say it like it is"). I believe this is why Ted wrote about Heath’s rumored drug problems. It’s all about "let’s for once say the truth, people are dying because HW is contributing to this problem by hiding it". While I agree that this needs to be done, the time and place was wrong.

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