Sunday, May 3, 2009

Out Spotlight LXXIII

This week a little different kind of Out Spotlight.

"In November 2004, Austin resident Anne S. Wynne was shocked when eleven states voted to add discrimination to their state constitutions by prohibiting same-gender couples from marrying. She wondered, "Where were the people who think like my husband and me?" She wanted to get involved, but couldn't find the right spot for her:"a straight married mother of three was"outraged by discrimination based simply on who a person chooses to love. So she founded Atticus Circle, named after Atticus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird"

The Atticus Circle was created because discrimination exists. Same gender couples and their children are being systematically denied the protections and responsibilities afforded to other families. There are over three million gay or lesbian people living in the United States in committed relationships in the same residence.

Atticus Circle educates and mobilizes fair-minded straight people to advance equal rights for LGBT partners, parents, and their children. Their focus is on education and policy development.

They provide information about the rights of parents and partners denied on the basis of sexual orientation. Their goal to create cultural and attitudinal change by helping people understand the unique challenges and discrimination same gender couples and their families face, and by encouraging acceptance of all families and partnerships. And they conduct research, publish materials, and work with businesses and policy institutions to develop ideas and policies that foster equal rights for same gender partners and their families.

Atticus Circle has launched several campaigns and programs to get their message out.

They have partnered with The Gay? Fine By Me T-Shirt Project after meeting in Austin in 2006, and realized they had similar goals, and went on to establish Campus Circle, bringing LGBT and straight people together to stand up for equal rights on high school and college campuses.


They are partnering with Soulforce to introduce “Sundays of Solidarity” (SOS), a new program which will replace their previous campaign “Seven Straight Nights for Equal Rights.” Their goal is to foster discussions between members of a faith community and equality activists."Between May 17th and June 28th, 2009, LGBT and allied people across the country will attend worship services at a homophobic church of their choice wearing a lapel button that reads “gay? fine by me,” or for less formal churches, a t-shirt with the same message."



Their upcoming campaign is All Mother's Day/All Father's Day "t
o ensure that every parent in America receives the recognition, basic rights, and “the pursuit of happiness” he or she is promised."

(From Atticus Circle)

Our All Mothers’ Day /All Fathers’ Day” campaigns work like this:

  1. Sign Up: Beginning April 17th, we will allow participants to sign up for this event on our website. After we process your paperwork, you will receive two emails. One will have our “All Mothers’ Day/All Fathers’ Day Toolkit” attached. The other will be a sample of the e-card you will send to your friends, family, co-workers, etc.

    The toolkit includes:

    • Directions on creating a Hallmark E-card to be emailed to a straight friend, colleague, etc.
    • 6 images which will be used in your e-card
    • 2 Greeting card templates to be printed and mailed to your congressperson
  2. Find out which congresspersons are representing your district, and their contact information.
  3. Go to a grocery store, and pick up an envelope for your card. The envelope should be 6” by 6”.
  4. Create an e-card for a straight friend, colleague, family member alerting them to LGBT issues and asking him/her to support full equality for all Americans. E-cards should be sent on Mother’s Day, May 10th. Father’s Day E-cards must be sent on June 21st.
  5. Mail your cards to your congressperson. Mother’s Day cards should be sent by May 5th. Father’s Day cards should be sent by June 14th.

Sign up for All Mother's Day/All Father's Day

Anne's leadership in the quest for equality was recognized in the 2005 campaign against the Texas Marriage Discrimination amendment, a measure that embedded discrimination against GLBT Texans in the state's constitution. She testified in the Texas Legislature against the proposed constitutional amendment and served as a spokesperson for the coalition of more than 150 organizations and thousands of individuals working to defeat the Texas Marriage Discrimination amendment.


Atticus Circle

Gay? Fine by Me

Soulforce

Campus Circle

Sundays of Solidarity (SOS)


75 comments:

Elinor said...

Good morning you all


I see out of my window, the lovely sunny day and yet … I am sad in my heart.

I am sad because you seem all down and a bit lost and after reading your last posts, I feel the same which isn’t a really good thing for a Sunday.

I understand you perfectly PrairieGirl, your choice is what you feel to be good for you. People have to be honest with others and specially with themselves, and you are!! It’s a great and rare quality. Never change !!!
I wish you the happiness and I know you will always be with us! You don’t go far away, it’s just like the end of “My fair Lady” when a broken heart Rex Harrison sings the wonderful “I’ve grown accustomed to her face” thinking Audrey Hepburn is gone for good and then, by miracle she comes back in the last scene.

I am jealous, everyone seem to play the Italian; the Gyllenhaals and M!!
I am glad for you M, hope it’ will be an unforgettable trip, Italy offers so many wonders, how lucky you are and how is it romantic!!!

I am happy for the married too; Maggie and Peter make a great couple with their pretty little girl. There is no better place for a wedding,really!

Thanks you NB for your words of encouragement, I am confident (I try lol)

Hey, Special K I didn’t know there was a song named “Felix the cat” lol , In France there is a brand of foods’cat named “Felix”!
Oh well not a really original name for a cat now but that suits him perfectly LOL

I will be always amazed by the courage and the willing to fight from some people like Anne s.Wynne!
She was right to name his association "Atticus circle" cause she is a other "Atticus Finch", someone who aren't afraid to fight for what is right and speaks up against hate and intolerance.

Besides all people on this earth who didn't read "to kill a Mockingbird" have to!! It's my last word ( for now)lol

Special K said...

Elinor

Felix the cat

Look in the MP3 section and the click on the Old Felix the Cat Theme

Florida Tom said...

I knew Maggie and Peter would be discrete about their wedding. Good for them and Congrats. Famewhores they are not.

We will probably never know for sure who was at the wedding but my guess is that Austin was a whole lot more likely to be there than reese.

By planting those Milan pics PR made it seem like she was. We will probably hear that she was but will never see a pic. If she was there I am sure she would have had her own photographer there.

It is interesting and nice to see Jake and his Dad chatting. Notice Momma wasnt too far away.

Nice Spotlight Spesh.

PR Girl I read what NETB wrote. I def think you misunderstood. Of course it is ok to take a break. I took a week off one time. Just ask Wicked she knows how easy I could let this place go:-)

NETB said...

What a wonderful post today, as always, but this one is a special one, the equal right to marry for all - Hooray for Atticus Circle! Anne Wynne is a great lady. :)

And congrats to Maggie and Peter too. Such a beautiful place to get married. :)

Elinor said...

Thanks Special K for the link !!

lol now I remember having already seen this cat somewhere but the musical theme no !!Seems really old, I like it though.

Atticus said...

Woohoo! I have a sex rights activist group named after me, not bad for a gelding! All Daddy has with his name is tweener turkeys.

Florida Tom said...

Not to scare anyone but in pic 6 of the second set on IHJ is that a short blonde that Momma G is talking to. I see the back of a head of a short blonde. Need experts to check it out.

What is up with Jake and these stupid hats hats lately. He looks like an old man. Check out the angry face when he notices the paps. Pretty scary stuff:-)

huh? said...

What pic 6? There are only 4 in both sets

IHJ said...

Posted on IHJ forum.

Atticus said...

I'm gonna do my Atticus Circle and curl up for a nap! Breakfast is so exhausting!

shit said...

"What pic 6? There are only 4 in both sets"

look at pic 4,a blond head face to naomi.

paranoia said...

look at pic 4,a blond head face to naomi.good thing neither maggie nor peter could possibly have a blond friend or family member.
after all blond woman are very rare.

a dark blond instead of reeses light blond, as well...

Florida Tom said...

I just need to know if reese was at this wedding. It will tell me one of two things. Jake and reese are a couple or the Gyllenhaals are a very sad group of people. Sorry but that is how I feel.

beard isn't important said...

Gyllenhaals support Jake and that includes bearding Jake.

Austyblond said...

It's me in a wig!

Elinor said...

Cause of you I am distracted, I was revising my lesson as a good pupil when I saw you started the "Finding Reese" game LOL

As a great fan ( but not really good) of "fiding Charlie" (maybe you know that!! in severals pics you have to find a boy named Charlie caring glasses and wearing t-shirt with red stripes. He is lost in a big big crowd and you have to find him as quick as possible!!) I had to check myself!!lol

Tom you have good eyes, even in widening the pic I didn't noticed the blond hair on the right side at first. Not easy , the head is half hidden by vegetation!

Impossible to say who this person is anyways, no detail enough!

Special K said...

But did you see the other man wearing a hat?

hm said...

Where?

destiny said...

I don't see another man wearing a hat. However, I do see someone who is tall in the left-hand corner of one of the photos. Can't make out a blond either.

I guess it's too early to tell, but looks like Maggie was able to keep Reeke from turning her wedding into another pap fest of the happy couple. How nice of Jake to let his sister be the center of attention on her own wedding. What a guy!

We may not get pictures of Reese at the wedding, but I'm sure we're in for another round of romantic Rome photos.

destiny said...

Forgot to add, the tall guy has hair coloring similar to Austin's, but can't make out the face.

Elinor said...

"But did you see the other man wearing a hat?"

Ahhhh Special k , "finding Austin " is so much more passionating! lol

Yes I see a man with a hat by the tall man in the left-hand corner Destiny talked about.
Besides this tall man looks like Peter no? I notice he wears a bow tie.

Elinor said...

"Forgot to add, the tall guy has hair coloring similar to Austin's, but can't make out the face."

Ahh yeah right , a bit too tall to be Peter , but he wears the bow tie LOL

Don't see it said...

Left-hand corner?

pic said...

man with hat

destiny said...

Sorry, about that. :-D Not enough coffee.

lol said...

Typical females!

destiny said...

Well, I could say it is stage left.

Peter has a beard, so he is not the tall guy in the corner. Maybe he's the one with the hat?

:) said...

Peter shaved his beard and doesn't wear a hat. Check out 12:32 PM pic - Peter and a man with a hat.

Italy said...

Gee, Destiny you always have to take a shot at Jake even at a happy family event. What a mature person you are!

destiny said...

It's easy to take shots when someone turns themselves into a sitting duck.

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Wicked said...

Man in hat could be anybody.

I like this Spotlight. I really enjoy Spotlights on organizations. I'd love to know how things go when they wear their "Gay? Fine by Me" shirts to conservative churches.

destiny said...

Hey, thanks Italy, now I have a new analogy. Not only is Jake a sitting duck, he likes to sit with the decoys, especially Reese. :-D

I like hearing about groups like this too Wicked. And it's always nice to read about straight people taking on causes like this because it takes mainstream support to change things.

Elinor said...

"Man in hat could be anybody."

Alas I fear not being able to solve this "italian mystery" before going to bed!

It could be anybody but what delicious picture our tall and shinning boy would be under this italian sun no?

Tonight, in my dream anyways, the austin prince will walk on the little chapel of his glorious presence.

I wish good evening and later a good night.

Meg said...

although its very nice to see maggie and peter married, I'm very puzzled by their choice of venue. I sure the hotel was very nice, but if I had decided on Italy and had a fairly large budget i could think of far nicer places to get married than Brindisi, rather dull countryside, scruffy, dusty, poor and hot is how I would describe it. Its also one heck of a way for all those americans to go for a wedding isn't it, nice environmental touch there. Also seems a weird thing (to me at least) to get married somewhere that you seem to have no obvious personal connection to, just really random.

With regard to whether Reese attended, at this point I don't think i could really care less.

Whatever, congrats to M&P, let's hope they have along and happy life together.

italy said...
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Meg said...

italy... if that remark is directed at me, then the answer is probably yes.

Francine said...
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destiny said...

Everyone has very different ideas of what is beautiful when it comes to things like this. As a former desert rat, I think the place where Maggie and Peter got married looks beautiful. I prefer the desert to lush green landscapes, and if I was going to get married, I would want a place like that. They also probably wanted a place where nobody would talk about it and/or had no idea who they were, a place without Americans and tourists.

leave Brindisi alone said...

Meg, sorry but your poorly informed and rather sad comment about scruffy 'poop' Brindisi country side is one step away from the unfortunate comment about the 'nasty' curled middle eastern lady. Let's stop making these kind of remarks. Clearly you have never been to Brindisi or anywhere near there. Besides, people marry in places that have a meaning to them, it is not always the case that people pic locations just because they are picture perfect. You have no idea what personal reason made Peter and Maggie choose that area. Do not lump them up with vain superficial HW, perhaps they are not?

Special K said...

Meg interesting insight on Brindisi.

I am so envious of all your travel adventures!

I wonder if they picked it because it was kind of out of the way and someplace that wasn't going to track so much attention, or maybe they some personal connection to the area.

The pictures of Maggie & Peter are so sweet and happy.

Austin's bush said...

"Destiny needs her bush Jake every day fix."

So do I! Sometimes twice or three times a day!

Meg said...

leave brindisi alone ...oops, apologies to all apulians out there, just making a remark. sorry but I admit that I might have just abit of northern italian bias going here which I will adress asap. Also, I just cannot imagine what connection M&P have to the south east of italy, willing to be informed though.

ps. Apologies Special if my previous comments were abit harsh, I maybe was abit strong in my condemnation of M&P's choice.

Special K said...

I don't think they were harsh Meg, you are a seasoned traveler and we're giving it as traveler's insight on the location.

And we all love the place we all hold dear or places we've lived in a special way and no place is as wonderful or beautiful as it is to us.

Meg said...

Thanks Special.. enjoy the rest of your Sunday.

destiny said...

Ditto what Special said Meg. Everyone is very different in their tastes, and luckily for us all there is a huge world full of wildly different places. I think most of us were smart enough to figure out you were expressing your own tastes and views.

Disney said...

We've just rewarded the good little beard with her own project, the first animation project for Pixar with a female lead.


And don't you love the way we let this story out the same weekend as Maggie's wedding??


Now if only I could figure out how to link that blog linked on wft2, can't seem to get the address to come up for it.

prairiegirl said...

netb, sorry I misunderstood what you said. I apologize for causing any unrest. We're all good & I'm glad of that.

Meg, I love your insight. I mean, of all people, you have been to these places; I know I sure haven't. Heck, I just hit the east coast for the first time this year. So my knowledge of world travel is severely lacking. Budapest. I am still in awe of this one. Meg, I love your comments and miss it when you're out traveling.

Well, Elinor, you have been initiated anyway, you got picked on. Not that left & right is anything to cuss about, but it does depend on if you are talking about the left of the person in the screen or the left of the screen as you are looking at it. There's 2 ways to speak of it, so it's not a big deal.

Actually, I liked the hat on Jake in these pictures. Probably because it fit in with the formal occasion. Not that a derby or something can't be casual, but that particular hat looks kind of dashing in that setting.

I have some church work to do on the internet so I am going to be on here all night. There was an interesting article on the front page of the K.C. Star today, you guys, on cable/internet companies in the near future (and some are at the present time) wanting to start charging all of us for internet time by the amount of time we spend on the internet, and not by the flat fee that we now pay. Maybe some of you already do that. We just pay a flat fee. But I guess the internet providers are saying that what is hogging up all the broadband width is people who download movies & send them to other people. I guess movies take up alot of usage. Comcast says that they already have a cap in place for internet usage. Anyway, thought that was interesting.

chinny chin chin said...

Reese's Disney projectVoiced by Reese Witherspoon, Merida is a Scottish princess who would rather be outside hunting than inside waltzing.~

Now that just SCREAMS Reese Witherspoon, does it not?

scary said...

All of Cantara's posts about Stephen

mapquest said...

Distance between Brindisi and Milan 888.68KM/552.22 miles

Reeked said...

Get the sick bags out. IHJ pics.

Jake you have sunk so low said...

How strange, is Plaid Lady from Coachella also in Italy trip? She's in the Italy pics, what is she the Reeke pose choreographer?

Jake Fan No More, Barely an Austin Fan Anymore said...

Naomi is an enabler, just what every gay son needs, a mom pushing him to be straight for the world so she can live out her HW dreams.


Austin, why are you letting Jake make a fool of you? You could have any gorgeous man or woman you want. Why are you staying with someone who doesn't have any balls. Are you enjoying all the lovey dovey photos?

At least Maggie, Peter and Stephen have some integrity.

Wedding Blues said...

Mark my words, Jake will be marching down the aisle with Reese just in time for PoP next spring. Only question I have, will Austin be dumb enough to stand by and play best man?

destiny said...

Oh look, the duck and his decoy posing for the their personal pap.

flf said...

Well, Mama G's at it again!
The paps are taking pics and Jake and the Chin lie on the ground and nuzzle?? While Mama G watches and the paps take their shots? Man this is beyond belief! I guess Mama is in a bad way financially and Jake is the goose that will have to lay the golden eggs..

This is why I don't post much. The dislike I have for Jake has turned to ridicule. There are times when I really don't give a shit whether he sinks or swims.

I'd really be happy to see the day Austin moves on, because I'm beginning to think what kind of a guy could be in love with a gutless, fake, mama's boy like Jake? And the answer ain't pretty.

Meg said...

as ever flf I couldn't have written it better myself. Just checked in this morning to see if there were any update (yes, I am a masochist) and am just horrified by the fact that Jake would allow a Reeking photo op at his own sister's wedding, and that his mother would go along with it. Have these people no shame or dignity. Naomi is indeed a very creepy enabler, totally desparate and shameless.

Now, i'm very willing to believe that this episode of reeking has been presented to allow austin to attend, maybe a condition set by Disney, but heck, Austin, time to move on mate. Get yourself back to NC, find yourself some cute post-doc from the university and dump old fakey jakey once and for all.

Know I'm venting, and all this criticism could be explained as some bitter Jautinite, but what the heck, I'll add that Jake looks dreadful in most of those pics. How does a 28 year old man get so many wrinkles? No wonder he keeps wearing that stupid hat, obviously terrifed of sun damage and trying to hold on to what little of his looks he still has.

Okay, that's me done, going to try and avoid all Jake / Austin / Reeke stuff for as long as possible although I'm sure I'll be back sometime (probably around lunch-time!).

If I manage to stay away, Special / Wicked / pg / destiny / flf and everyone else, who've created I great site here, Special of course you deserve particular praise in all your inventiveness and imagination. Its been a blast, but like all things I really do think that my interest in all this has run its course.

Bye for now.

Bailey Biddles and Banks said...

Mama G is wearing a ring set on her left hand. Is it the old S&N set, a new husband, a regular ring or has S&G reconciled, I wonder.

Bailey Biddles and Banks said...

oops I mean S&N reconciled

hopeful tb said...

Love this spotlight and the out spotlights in general.

I haven't been posting much because I can't stand the person Jake has become since Reeke began and I hate the mandatory Reese fandom that comes with him nowadays. I don't find Reese interesting and don't give a shit how tiny, perfect and successful she is. Good for her, but what does that have to do with Jake even if they are really dating?

I'm still here every day and don't intend to go away.

Special K said...

There are a lot of inconsistencies with the pictures of Jake and Reese in Italy.

The biggest one is Jake switching bikes back an forth in pictures. What is up with that?

Jake Boy Bike #1 (R free)And the PR Escort/Staff/Frequent Traveler is riding the bike with the basket and Jake on the Boy Bike

Jake Boy Bike #2 (R free)Then there's a picture of him on the girl bike with the basket

Jake Girl Bike with Basket #2 (R free)Jake Girl Bike with Basket #3 (NOT R Free)But then he's back on the Boy's Bike

Jake Boy Bike #3 (NOT R Free)The only time the get the two on bikes remotely close together is whether they are walking bikes or standing next to them.


I admit I do find it odd that they choose what most people would consider one of the most inappropriate times for PDA at whatever derivation it is, sitting in between to women who are looking away,especially if one of them is your mother and the other one works for you. I wonder if Naomi and the other women are having a conversation with each other,now that would be awkward. Because sitting there quiet and not talking would be even more awkward, but the only thing even more awkward that would be sitting there not looking and carrying a conversation with Jake and Reese.

And other question - Why would the PR assistant need to travel to Italy for a private family affair?


So here are my thoughts on this photo session for whatever they are worth.

Reese wasn't physically at the wedding, but the pictures of her the day after implies she was.

That actually Austin was at the wedding.

The PR assistant was involved in because it was a business and she was traveling with Reese.

the bearding hits its nadir said...

theawfultruthBut #crescent has nothing on #toothy who's probably going to marry Miss Beard(from Ted's twitter)

Ted said...

^From Ted’s twitter:

#crescentkumquat's got some super-stiff competition from #toothytile in beard dept

But #crescent has nothing on #toothy who's probably going to marry Miss Beard

question said...

Is the lady in Italy the same Plaid Lady who was in Coachella? I can't tell.

Special K said...

Ted's covering the bases with "probably" - but again he is following the rags to link up the whole Toothy - Jake thing yet again.

I see it, with my glasses firmly on, that's not a done deal, until it comes with a signed and official license, but that's just me.

trip trick said...

Get this: there had to be 2 photogs there to get the simultaneous front and back views of Reeke getting affectionate between Mama and other lady.

Special K said...

Good catch Trip Trick!

same shit, different year said...

The pics remind me of Jake and Kristen canoodling near the pool in between Kristen's PA and pal whose name I forget and Sam the drug dealer Ronson sitting there looking on.

makes sense said...

Jake, Kristen, Sam - they're all guy and only one of them has come out.

you know what I meant said...

Sorry - all gay!

trip trick said...

Good catch on the bikes, Special! Is the PR lady the same one at Indio?

Jake's a Loser said...

Never thought I'd admire Lindsey Lohan more than Jake but I do now!

Special K said...

Not sure Trip Trick. But she has been seen before with them on business related moments.

Little Women said...

Funny how Business Brunette and Running-On-Empty Mama had to be there with Reeke for the pda. Maybe Mama was there to hold Jakey's hand and Business Brunette was the one holding the cashier's check?